The 99.9% rules/ keys to effective dating

Aug 2 2009
The 99.9% rules/ keys to effective dating

Proverbs 18:22
Mathew 13:44-46

The plan of ur life should be to be a kingdom person. Gods kingdom &
culture should trump that of this world. We should be aware of what's
going on around us but don't allow american culture to trump ur 1st
right/responsibilty to God. Shouldn't be eye for an eye , most ppl do
good b/c others do good. Do right because it's right to do. Your on
another level if ur doing right when no one is looking. You can't get
something for nothing. Most ppl don't take the time to earn
things...we want things fast. All of us are tempted at times. We treat
church like we can live raggady all week & then serve on Sunday but we
need to commit and show urself faithful in order to recieve. God is
faithful anyway & the Lord loves u even when ur messed up & going
through. Only faithfully ppl can see when God is faithful b/c when ur
going thru u believe the Lord for less. It's not that the Lord blesses
u less it's that u beleive him for less. Don't comparentalize the Lord
aow the spirit to control ur heart b/c as long as u hold back a piece
of urself you will never recieve peace in ur life.

Men are nervous about comitment but women love commient ..that's why
they ask questions like will u still be together if I loose a leg. Lol
women like security. Men, however will accept whatever u give..guys
will take what they can get without having to make a commitment. There
is no half stepping .. Commit & give 100...if u gone get some milk buy
a cow. You won't move past ur fears until u jump in.

99.9%Rules to christian dating:

1) 99.9% of ur dating and engagement time u should be in public. The
private time is what gets u engaged in other activities or sexual
immorality. That doesn't mean sitting in ur car together in a parking
lot. Lol Meet in public places!

2) u need to be 99.9% sure that this person will be ur wife/husband b4
u even kiss. Kissing is one of the most intimate things u could do,
passing spit & rubbing on each other. It's not hard to break up with
someone you haven't had sex with. View ur body as an artform, women.
When u look at a guy, he's made for work. Don't let no body in ur
measum for free. Worrying about buying a car & not test driving?
Living with someone b4 marriage, don't do it! What if he/she doesn't
know what he's/she's doing sexually? Good intimacy comes from good
conversations (talk about those things), ultimately u walk by faith &
not by sight.

3) Have 99.9% sure knowledge of a person. Done over spirituLize it, u
need to know that person. Physical actions can cloud ur judgment. B4
marriage u should know 7 p's:
1) personality (both can't be quiet or both loud, ur personalities
need to fit together)
2) perspectives need to match. Don't be with someone crazy if ur
not crazy. If ur not jealous don't marry someone jealous.
3) potential. Ur not marrying who they are, marry someone whose
growing. Your marrying who they are going to become.
4) Their past. Should be full disclosure! Know ex girlfriends/
boyfriends, credit history. Where u came from what u did, if u had a
disease but u got rid of it.
5) Parents. Know eachothers parents b/c we become our parents (sad
to say).
6) Their Pastor. You know alot about a person by who they folow
and who they serve. You know someone by the spiritual leardership they
have.
7) know about their ppl! U are who u hang around, ur known by the
company u keep. U hang with ppl b/c u like them, u can't grow and
change with ppl in ur life who are not changing.