Someone Caught your eye???
Attention - Attention is based on what you see. Physical appearance, which progresses to attraction ONLY as a result of multiple conversations getting to know each other. No such thing as love at first sight. Green Light.
Attraction - It's reasonable for a girl to meet a very ordinary looking guy, pay little attention to him, but later get attracted once she gets to know him; because females are stimulated more by what they hear than what they see. Green Light.
God wants us to appreciate one another & be drawn to one another in Christian Love. BUT focus your love & adoration on the Creator, not just the creation.
Affection - Check your motives behind the affection expressed. Hanging out (group events) & exploring the possibilities of a future. Strengths & weaknesses. Yellow Light.
Attachment - imagine a strip of clear packing tape. Sticky & eager to bond with anything it touches. Once attached it won't come off without tearing the box & leaving paper residue on the tape. The tape might be sticky enough to bond to something else, but the more you attach & remove it, the less sticky it becomes. Eventually, it loses it's bonding ability all together. Yellow Light.
Affairs - control your appetite for unhealthy relationships! Red Light.
Addiction - Romance & sexual activities can be more addicting than drugs or alcohol. Red Light.
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