Having a relationship doesn't rid you of all your problems; your only exchanging one set of problems for a different set of problems. If your wounded & incomplete, you will attract the same, & the two of you will multiply the negative factors of each other.Two people who drain each other because they have nothing to invest makes for a very unhealthy, unfulfilling relationship.
You can't change or save anyone. Only God can successfully complete that task. Love does not change a broken persons behavior. It only validates it.
The Messiah complex: tendency for caring people to become rescuers who try deliver others from their problems & difficult life circumstances.
A good relationship is more about BECOMING the right person than FINDING the right person.
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