July 12, 2009
Genesis 24:1-4
Proverbs 18:22
Proverbs 31:10
Being saved is the most important thing you could ever do. Know more
than just going to church but saying yes to the Lord & u know him.
salvation is a gift of God & not of works. The 2nd most important
decision u make is who your life partner is. It's the only thing u
commit to do forever. It's a covenant that we have to be serious
about. In the bible most marriages were arranged, they didn't have
cell phones or email ect. Today there are way more ways to connect
with people. In the bible things were alot more spiritual but your not
going to find a wife or be found by a husband in your prayer closet.
It's not just going to happen it takes a process.
Genesis 24:1-4
Men: how do I find someone? Abraham didnt send Isaac to find himself a
wife he sent his chief servant to find a wife for Issac. View Abraham
as a picture of GOd. See Isaac as you who wants sex..wants someone.
See The chief servant is the servant of God on you. 1)Allow the
servant of God in you to find a wife for you. Your inner man. Fast &
pray men about who your wife will be. Pastor Andy fasted for 21 days
with water & juice to find a wife & the Lord told him snout himself.
The Lord didn't send him her name but he told him the qualities he
should be looking for.
Women: how do I get found?
1)Be in the houshold of God..don't be a heathen or a Canaanite. Be
faithful & consistant. " if u seek 1st the kingdom then the lord will
give u the desire of ur heart". And it starts with you ..don't ask the
Lord to send u what u are not. Don't ask for a spiritual man if ur not
spiritual.
2) Be specific (verse 10). Pray specifically, make a list, check it
twice..u tryna find out whose naughty or nice. Marriage is the only
family you get to PICK!! Choose someone who matches up with you!
top things that need to be on your list:
Men: 1) she needs to be saved! You need a praying wife who will pray
for you when you don't even want to pray for yourself. Someone who
loves God and is called according to his purpose.
2) she needs to be attractive! She should look good to you ALL the
time! Even when she's not made up. Then when she's made up that should
just be the icing on the cake. Like her when she wearing the aunt
Jamima scarf & beady robe. Don't be with someone who scares u just
because she prays good.
3) she needs to be sweet & nice especially to you. If she will diss
uvin the first 9 or 10 months of knowing you..u don't wanna have kids
by her! It doesn't mean get someone who is weak or a punk..she should
still get things done. There should be some reverance when u get home
like "oh my man just walked in the door girl I'll call u back! My baby
is home"
4) she needs to be happy and happy with herself. Someone who focuses
on the positive! Not always depresed or down.
5) she should be smart! U shouldn't be intimidated by a woman who
knows more than u. That's Jesus! You want someone who van show u how
to do some things or enlighten you. Praise the Lord if your wife makes
$80thousand & u make $30. Don't be afraid of a womB who read stiff u
ain't read ..someone has to help the kids do their homework.
6) be with a woman who is open!! Not closed off. Someone who can
follow your leadership. "whatever u like" lol get someone whose ready
to change their name!! No hyphyns or nuthin. If she wanna keep her
name let her stay with her daddy & her family & nem. Let her be by
herself.
7) she should be tough, unbreakable..u barely ever see them fall
apart. She should be able to multi-task. "I'm every woman!"
Womens top 7 list:
It's harder to find a quality man than it is to find a quality woman.
There are alot of loosers who mascarade as quality but they really
bums! Ladies need to do their research.
1) he needs to be saved. He should submit to the Lord. Don't get a
project dude (not meaning acdude from the project) who believes in
God...even the devil believes in God.
2) he needs to be dependable!!! If u have been with a dude for 3 yrs
or so and still hasn't married u then u are wasting ur time. U don't
need any more friends. Someone dependable & consistant!
3) he needs to have a job! A man who has worked ..will work..is got
plans.A man with no job is as important to u as a man with no penis!!!
4) he needs to be loving! He should have some romance to him. Men
exchange romance for sex. Woman exchange sex for romance. Today woman
are too easy. Don't just hug a guy any ol way cuz guys dudes don't
Mary easy women. They get stuck with easy woman but they don't marry
em. Have some space in between..lean forawd and pat pat.
5) he needs to be attractive. Attractive is # 5 on the list b/c u
don't need a show horse u need all the other things on the list 1st!
6) he needs to be happy & healthy not always miserable. Don't confuse
toughness with crazy!! He should be able to smile in a picture or
laugh. If he has a negative perspective of woman u will pay for that.
7) he need to be open & ready to change. Ready to take ur class on "u"
to figure "u" out. B/c ur not like his mom or his sisters or them
girls that did him wrong b4. It's not a semester either it's a Masters
degree in "u". Don't get with someone whose only into himself..I'm jus
street or whatever this is how I am. Allow him to be by himself.
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